to the dude who DM me (wont name people) thanks for this, i am trying to do better, truth is, i need help in this, and am socially incapable of practically anything, help is sadly hard to get seeing that my local goverment (who legally have to involve) has had severe budget cuts on this kinda stuff, and thus is very redundant, but all i wanna say is, no hard feelings here, glad you apologised, and thank you
